Comments on: Hello Darkness, My Old Friend…..Wait. Nevermind. I’m Breaking Up with You. http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/ Reader, Thinker, Writer, Lover. Mon, 03 Jan 2022 16:56:54 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.37 By: Sara BC http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/#comment-121 Wed, 06 May 2015 17:15:24 +0000 http://deblinne.com/?p=310#comment-121 TRUTH, amiga!!! And you communicate it so beautiful in poetry and prose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: deb http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/#comment-109 Fri, 24 Apr 2015 03:27:53 +0000 http://deblinne.com/?p=310#comment-109 I’m so glad, Colleen. Love you!!

]]> By: Colleen Hemmert http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/#comment-108 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 19:48:22 +0000 http://deblinne.com/?p=310#comment-108 Deb,

sometimes you just really know when someone needs to hear some comforting words. Love you my friend.

]]> By: deb http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/#comment-107 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 18:28:55 +0000 http://deblinne.com/?p=310#comment-107 Saved it to reread…BEST. COMPLIMENT. EVER. Thanks, Antonio!

]]> By: deb http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/#comment-106 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 18:28:28 +0000 http://deblinne.com/?p=310#comment-106 Love it, mama! Now, when are you starting YOUR blog? I’ll be your first subscriber!! xoxo

]]> By: Antonio http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/#comment-105 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 17:41:00 +0000 http://deblinne.com/?p=310#comment-105 That was great Deborah. I saved it to my Evernote so I could be reminded of it. Thank you!

]]> By: Ma http://deblinne.com/blog-posts/hello-darkness-my-old-friend-wait-nevermind-im-breaking-up-with-you/#comment-104 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 17:24:06 +0000 http://deblinne.com/?p=310#comment-104 I have learned the hard and long way that revisiting that pain just.isn’t.worth.it… It is the chief liar. It seems to offer comfort and familiarity, but all it offers is more (really…more!!) pain. It takes the old pain, furrows it back up fresh and new, adds fertilizer in the form of the new pain to it, and walah! Fresh new deeper pain!! Many different things have caused this change in my heart: wisdom in the form of experience mostly, but also in the form of people like Dad, you, study, God… But the best teacher is when you do let it go, how much lighter your burden, how much cleaner you feel, how much clearer you can see, how much slower your heart beats, how, you can now face the new day (even if it’s 5 o’clock in the afternoon!)… Give me that!!

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